Wednesday, August 26, 2015

New Friends

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When not writing, or at College, or at work, or noticing my continued wasting away, I spent time with friends. Mostly Jeff, but as the years had gone on I had gained Pat, the one who had replaced me at the software start-up. 'Karl', 'Wayne', and 'Chet' were friends of Jeff's whom I'd come to know and had been trying to get a Dungeons & Dragons group formed around. 'Dan' and 'Shelia' were husband and wife science fiction enthusiasts from Denver who not only attended their group, but had been coming to our little city to help found our science fiction club and be monthly attendees. While trying to befriend some of the folks I worked with or went to College with, nothing much ever came of that beyond a brief chat about the weather during breaks.
In the case of the Dungeons & Dragons group, we simply didn't have enough people to make it fun, still we got together at my mother's mobile home off and on over the previous year on Friday evenings to give it a go. It seemed to me Pat and I had become the closest friends given our common computer programming, music, and writing interests. As Nineteen Eighty-Six progressed, he had successfully moved from the defunct software start-up to other software firms in town and had his work successfully published and was even toying with redefining floating point arithmetic. We would often get together to trade recently finished stories, debate the latest music group, and even philosophy. By the end of the year, he had found himself a regular girlfriend and was eying marriage and his first house.
Dan's and my friendship centered mostly on our music interests and trading record albums to listen to between science fiction club meetings. In fact, if not for the allure of his record collection, I might not have even bothered with the local science fiction group as it often seemed they would just get together each month to wonder what they should do with the coming meetings and never settle on anything, only to repeat the process all over again with the next meeting. My favorite part of the group was when it ended and we would go out and get a table at the nearby diner for an additional two hours. For some reason, when no longer dwelling on what the group should be doing at the next meeting, they livened up... Or maybe it was just the food.
The club had permanently reserved the community room at a local bank for our once a month Saturday night gatherings and I once again arrived at the December meeting to simply trade albums with Dan. As it turned out he was sitting apart from the group, I settled down next to him and we chatted about what else we had in our libraries to trade in the next month. It was then that I noticed the 'fresh faces' at the meeting table, two new girls were here and had gotten the group off the topic of what to do for the next years' meetings and instead onto the topic of who these new girls were and what they did. Once Dan and I had agreed upon the following month's record trade, I scooted my chair up to the table to hear more about the new girls.
Both were teachers who had recently moved to town and were exploring the various local social options. Of the two girls one was the shy one, 'Daina', and the other the gregarious one, 'Rochelle'. Rochelle was making the biggest splash while Daina mostly talked when asked questions. It turned out Daina had the science fiction interests more than Rochelle, but when Rochelle heard about the monthly meetings she had encouraged Daina to get out of her apartment and actually attend this night. Daina was about nine years older than me whereas Rochelle was only a few. Soon the group got ready for the post meeting dinner and the two girls joined us. This gave me a better chance to talk with just the girls and I struck while I could: ''Have you ever played Dungeons & Dragons?''
Neither had but were willing to give it a try and we were at my home the following month to learn about the game, and join in. We finally had barely enough players to make the game fun but, as it turned out, we now had more people than my mother was willing to let me have at her place after a week or two. Given the need to find a new home for the game, Daina offered her apartment and we spent the next several Fridays there getting their characters ironed out and into the first adventure. Ultimately the group still failed. After a long day of work, Wayne routinely fell asleep and would start to snore, Chet was finishing up his Senior year of High School and would soon be away to a traditional College and Karl was Karl. He kind of reminded me of my childhood friend who lived at the defunct dairy farm, part charm and part mischief, but in the case of Karl there was also a randomness to him and we never knew if he was going to show up or not to each game, leaving us to wait for him needlessly or wonder what to do about his character in the game when he wasn't there.
But the girls kept on searching for new social activities in town and found that a new 'writers group' was forming where a bunch of writing enthusiasts would share their work with each other and cajole themselves into getting published one day. As they learned I dabbled in writing, the girls let me know of the group and we attended its first meeting along with a few more of the science fiction clubbers. Being at the same south end of town, with the writing group at the organizer's home to the north end, the girls and I soon car pooled and within a few years time one would become my best friend and the other not.
As for me, though, the clock was winding down.




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