Wednesday, July 20, 2016

The Dimming Light

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I don't now if it was the final result of the cumulative years' worth of emaciation, or perhaps an unrecognized side effect of taking the fat enzymes, but by the Summer of Nineteen Ninety, my brain was just not working any more.
I could still muddle out my stories needed for The Doctor Who Report as well as my editorial bit for the science fiction club's monthly two sheet, but the results were less compelling and more lack luster. While I had been writing code consistently since the age of fourteen, I found it had recently become confusing for me and hard to untangle and I soon gave up trying. I even reached the point where one day I realized I couldn't remember what my last name was anymore and actually had to pull out my Colorado State I.D. to remind myself.
Physically I was doing a bit better, though. I don't know if it was the fat enzymes helping me to absorb calories or the frequent free dinners Daina was taking me to at restaurants, but I had actually gained a little weight during the first half of the year, bringing me to only be thirty three pounds underweight. Where the previous year I had discovered I could wrap my thumb and index finger around my upper arm and have the finger tips touch, I now had to use my slightly longer middle finger to reach my thumb on the other side, meaning my upper arm had increased in circumference by nearly a quarter inch!
While getting the fat enzymes was the first step I had gotten out of a doctor to treat my weight loss problems, ultimately the full issue was still not being addressed by my assigned doctor, Betsey, at the community health clinic. And my attempts to find a counselor to help me understand why this may be and how to correct it, getting doctors to serious look into my persistent health problems, had come to nothing as well. I saw this dimming of my brain as a sign that I was down to my last year or two before my life finally expired.
I reflected that I at least wouldn't have to worry about addressing my intersexed 'situation' given my presumed remaining lifespan.
Though I had gained those few pounds, I now had the persistent burning line of pain going down the back of my left leg, more of my hair had fallen out, leaving me with a tuft of hair in the center of an otherwise balding skull. I couldn't stay awake for more than eight hours at a time, having to sleep before the next eight hours. After a few weeks of this my metabolism embraced the eight hours up, four hours down, eight hours up, four hours down daily schedule. In one way this made me feel like I was living twice as many days as compared to other people. But in reality I hadn't been living a full life in years.
Never having suffered from nightmares my entire life, I started to have little 'night frights' where I would doze off and have a brief impression of my dead body being eaten by little bugs: Sometimes spiders, sometimes ants. I would wake up with a start to realize it had only been a brief, if unwelcomed dreamlet.
During my first year at the apartment I had problems where my belly would sometimes swell out like a taut balloon and all I could do was unbutton my pants and unzip my zipper to allow me the most comfort at these moments while I hid in my apartment until the swelling was over. Based on T.V. ads I concluded it might be intestinal gas problems and went to the local pharmacy to look through their gas treatment options. I finally found one brand that didn't have any additives that I was allergic to and bought a box. While it helped on these occasions, given how expensive it was compared to my budget, I rationed these to the times when I had to have the swelling down so I could go to an appointment or when the swelling was particularly painful.
During the year I also had bouts of shivering during the Spring, Summer and Fall. Once I found out about my body temperature readings I wasn't surprised, but all I could do was wear my winter jacket inside the apartment to help me warm up, sometimes even taking the comforter off of my bed to wrap myself in and make a can of hot soup. During the Winter, oddly enough, this wasn't an issue in the apartment as I could open the heating valve more and bring the temperature in my apartment into the eighties if I needed to. The only issue, then, was if I was waiting for the bus outside in the cold and began shivering uncontrollably. All I could hope for in that case was that the bulky coat would help to hide this from the bus driver and other passengers once they arrived.
Then one day, after another profoundly painful bathroom bout and all of my attempts to find a counselor had failed, I saw no future for myself. I decided to stop drinking anything for half a day to make sure my bladder would stay empty by the next morning and went to bed with the express goal of committing suicide by just waiting to expire while lying in bed...
But a day and half later I was bored of just lying there and got up to check my eMail and play a game on the computer, falling back into the drinking and eating routine while I was at it.
As I had been going through the phone book's yellow pages in search of a counselor, I had crossed out the names of those who had turned me down or didn't work out and decided that I could always call back the ones who had never returned my initial phone call to them. But this just resulted in a second occasion for them not to return my phone call. Then a few weeks later, a psychiatrist I'll name 'Jude' called me and apologized for not getting back to me sooner as he had been on vacation.
Would I like to come in next week?




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