Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Dead Of Winter

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By the turn of the year into Nineteen Eighty-Nine I again saw no future for myself as a person. I was having buoyant success with the science fiction club and The Doctor Who Report, and if not for those I would have had nothing in my life to keep me going. But as for my 'person': My health was trapped fluctuating between thirty-five and forty pounds underweight, I couldn't conceive of ever finding a doctor to help with my health problems, nor could I imagine remaining as a squatter in my mother's mobile home for the rest of my life, however long that might be. Painful drawn out stints in the bathroom had become a twice to three times weekly event and all I could do was beg to God to please let me die so I would never have to face another experience like it again. Then a few days later I was right back there, begging.
Mother had lost some of her will to pound on my bedroom door to harass me and was now down to doing it only once or twice a day. So I guess some things were getting better. Since her summertime stunt of claiming that she had spoken to my siblings about me, we once again had little if any interaction. Once in a great while I might see her when I'd come out of my bedroom to get a drink in the kitchen or to use the bathroom. If she was up and moving at the time I would make sure to lock my bedroom door behind me. If not, I might be daring and leave it unlocked if I knew I was going to be quick. If for some reason I forgot my key, I did have a second one hidden elsewhere in the mobile home, but had rarely needed to use it.
At the turn of the year, my COBRA health insurance coverage period had come to an end. The good news was that I no longer had to worry about making that monthly payment, of course the bad news was I no longer had any health insurance. But as I couldn't image ever again seeing a doctor, it didn't seem like much of a loss.
I would continue my late night walks once mother was to bed just to give me some exercise and a change of environment. From locked in my eight foot by eight foot bedroom with everything I had crammed inside, it was a great relief to roam the neighborhood streets or undeveloped fields. Sometimes I'd take my portable and headphones with me and listen to music, but most of the time I just liked the ambient sounds of a world at rest.
While I would still dabble with computer programming, on the whole I didn't have any purpose for it except to once in a great while write a piece of code for Jeff's online site. He had finally changed the host computer for it from his old TRS-80 to an IBM PC clone machine. Having multiple hard drives allowed the site to host not only multiple forums but networked ones as well. One of these I was avid for was the International Doctor Who Forum and Jeff finally found a reliable network link to it and soon not only did I have more people to discuss Doctor Who with, but I could use that discussion to create a 'Rumors' page in TDWR as well as gain additional subscribers and some new minor contributors, to boot. TDWR had finally gone national, though it was still pretty obscure, and within a few months, when the existing forum moderator decided to leave and they were searching for someone to take over, I volunteered and received the most votes, adding 'Moderator Of The International Doctor Who Forum' to my quiver of 'job' titles. And just like my work for TDWR and the local science fiction club, all of it was unpaid.
Early in January I found myself with the most bizarre problem. It snuck up on me at first as I could just swallow more often, but by the end of one day I realized that my mouth was producing a constant and unyielding supply of saliva. It reached the point that I found I could no longer drink anything simply because my stomach was already overflowing with the liquid. As it became clear it wasn't going to get better any time soon, and I didn't want to find out what would happen if I tried to go to sleep for the night with it, I finally decided to go to the emergency room.
Arriving by the turn of midnight, I checked in and had to admit I didn't have any health insurance. This resulted in rolling eyes by the admitting nurse, but my having to constantly swallow while trying to talk lead her to believe there was something that needed to be looked at. When asked who my primary care physician was, I said I didn't have one. Checked in and taken to an examination bed, I explained what was going on and after jotting down all of the details, the nurse returned with a large cup that I could... drool into. Hadn't there been a Saturday Night Live sketch like this? I wondered as I sat there waiting for the E.R. doctor to arrive and make his own examination.
A cup and a half later he did and quickly looked in my mouth and had me say 'awh' with a tongue depressor performing its task. He diagnosed me with an infected saliva gland and ordered a prescription of antibiotics that I could get filled at the twenty-four hour pharmacy on the way home. I did and when I heard the price, I left for my credit union's Automatic Teller Machine to pull the needed money out of my savings while the bottle was filled. Since leaving the hospital, I was back to the constant swallowing as I accepted the prescription bottle and thanked the pharmacist and then went home. Mother was still in bed and for all I knew hadn't even noticed I had gone. I took my first pill and returned to my bedroom to work on the computer, now with a glass from the kitchen in hand as my at home drool cup. Still, the flow hadn't subsided enough by the time I wanted to go to bed and I had to resort to getting a bath towel and folding it up into multiple layers to tuck under my chin as I lay on my side to fall asleep. The hope was that it would absorb the never ending stream while I slept.
It was surprising successful and by the end of the next day the flow was down to a rate I could comfortably swallow again... By the third day things were back to normal.
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